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Hi all grief is so different for everyone , like everything in life , we all have to do what is best for ourselves I hope helen and Dave I hope you get some ease soon keep strong audrey it’s strange I have the same as your daughter , I thought the same as you that they were the same thing sending my love ❤️
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Hi audrey ii have them coughs , regular thankfully not hospitalised , I’ve been told it’s secondary still waiting for results from c t scan , I really hope she gets home soon ❤️
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Hi all ive just had a test this morning ,its awful high temp , bad chest , feeling rough , both myself and husband have it , yeah we’re isolating hope fully feel better soon Dave I hope things start to get better keep strong ❤️
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Hi all hope you are doing ok ive been feeling a bit down , now I’ve tested positive for covid **** hospital app 😢, had a gp app about my mood she’s said to try some herbal boost powder , so going to give it a try it has good reviews love to you all ❤️
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Hi beaglegirl pleased talking to Liam has helped even a little bit, you don’t have to say sorry , just wish we could say something that would help , stay strong and take each day as it comes , always here ❤️
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Hi, you should really contact them back , they might beable to help you if they knew Martin aswell as they have a common bond with you , try anything please ❤️
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Hi I still think you should go back to your gp and ask for a grief counselling face to face have you got friends you can talk to or family , you could stay with , or stay with you until you get on your feet a bit ❤️
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Hi beaglegirl im so sad to hear your pain , I really do think you need to speak to someone , who is trained in dealing with grief , our friend got a teddy made in her husbands clothes , and she hugs that and talks to it , and it has his aftershave on , please call your gp and see if they can help you ❤️
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Hi beagle girl you are not upsetting anyone on here , we are all on here for help in someway , I agree you need to get the angry feeling out any way you can as you won’t heal, I never felt angry at my diagnosis just worried that I would die and leave my family , I’ve told my husband that I felt so lonely as I was in…
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Hi beaglegirl i wouldn’t google anything , I think that it would make you tick more , you need to think of the good times , the love you shared , ii ts not your fault things happen , the dr would have done everything for him and so did you please think of the good times and stay positive ❤️
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Hi all wow audrey your daughter is doing so well to get back to work it’s lovely to hear you must be very proud of her ❤️ beaglegirl I don’t know what to say to help you feel better , as I’ve never lost my husband I think it’s time if you get some help and ease talking to Rachel from AN then do it , stay strong ❤️
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Hi all hope you get sorted out soon and get ease hopefully the weather will get better , then we can get outside ❤️
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Thanks Dave , I don’t feel like it , hopefully things will get better , I’ll be happier once I know about my ct scan x
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Hi Dave i have venesection every 2 months , I was having it monthly but it was too much for me as it was bringing my hemaglobin low then I couldn’t have anything done my iron level was 2100 now it’s down to 850 they want it to 500 I’ve been having this for just over a year , then it knocks me to pot can’t win really ❤️
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Hi all thats my issue low immune system , they are now investigating why it’s not improving , I also have to much iron which can effect vital organs again 1 step forward and 3 back hopefully we’ll all turn the corner soon ❤️
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Morning helen so sorry you are feeling down , do you think the dark days make things worse ? I’ve had a few doses of antibiotics and steroids , now I’m taking a low dose of antibiotics all the time , I’ve had a ct scan so see what they say now , it would be weird if the families did know each other ❤️
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Good luck Dave hooe it works out for you x
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Hi auds I’ve sent a private message enjoy your coffee going to have a biscuit this morning ❤️
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I’ll mention that thanks Dave ❤️
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Hi dave im 3 years bmt I’ve got steroid mouth wash and that is helping I have very dry mouth and throat and crusty kidneys , so I have to drink plenty I’m still on all my meds my proff wants me on them for 5 years ,I’ve been for a ct scan today to see why my chest is always bad so see what that shows ❤️
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Hi all all I can say is Thankyou I lost all my so called friends through my illness , I have 2 good friends I ring one every couple of weeks but she is 91 so I don’t expect her to visit I have no brothers or sisters my mam died last year and my dad died years ago , I have brother in law as one died just before Christmas ,…
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Hi all dave I totally agree with what you have said it is so hard that Martin fought so hard to keep going , that he was tired and unwell beaglegirl please try to think of the happy times you have shared and the love you’ve had that will never go away , my friend took some old clothes of her husbands and got a memory bear…
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Hi helen its so true , sometimes I just want to be normal and do normal things , it’s just hard work I hope you get through next week with lovely nurses keep strong ❤️love to you xx
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Hi all i was lovely to hear from you Dave , but sorry to hear you are struggling , I agree with a lot of what you said , I would say do want you feel you can do no pressure I don’t have any clubs , I knit and read and walk when I feel like it , I feel really low at the moment so many hospital app for different things all…
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Hi all please don’t very forget we’re always here for each other ❤️ helen send me your details and I’ll see if I can find you on Fb 😊 ❤️
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Hi beaglegirl your dogs sound lovely we have a Scottie called Jacques . Please don’t beat yourselve up about his treatment you’ve done everything for Martin , I can understand how you feel , please give yourselve sometime ❤️
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Hi beaglegirl wow you were very lucky to have found a soul mate , that’s a love that will last forever , you sound as if you had a wonderful life together please keep talking I’m always here , hopefully once the shock of all this has worn off a bit ,you will see things more clearly , you are not upsetting anyone it’s your…
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Hi beaglegirl im so very very sorry and sad to hear your heartbreaking news , at least Martin is in peace and no more pain , I know that doesn’t make things any easier i understand about feeling angry , I would say that’s a normal feeling , you will always have him in your heart and your memories how old was he ? Please…
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Hi helen i totally know where you are coming from and I totally agree ❤️I’m on Facebook
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Hi helen i think we all have our ups and downs , I just get on with it , I talk about you all and your journeys with my husband it makes me feel better knowing that we are all the same. I’m always thinking about you Dave hope you are ok , I wouldn’t no how to find you on facebook helen you sound so much brighter so pleased…